"Rothenberg tells about growing up female in New York City in the 50s and 60s, years when racial and sexual prejudice were the norm.... The stories - especially concerning her parents - are moving." - Washington Post Book World; "Rothenberg unflinchingly uses her own life to teach about the personal, political dangers of accepting the role of exception." - The Women's Review of Books; "Rothenberg writes with refreshing candor." - Publishers Weekly"