Arjen Broens

Curiously Grounded (eBook, ePUB)

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Produktbeschreibung

This book handles a controversial subject: family.

The rituals, the pleasure and pressure a family can bring to you as a member of that specific family, the bonding and bondage, the unwritten rules of older over younger, boy over girl, parent over child.

Your sovereign authority as a human being, getting raised in a team of one, two or more to start off with, will change the power structure in the team, between team members and you as a child in that team.

The struggle begins when the consideration of becoming a parent has not been thought through: the psychological change in role and position, the responsibilities, the devotion to a child that will go through the same growing up sequences as yourself, as a parent.

If you, as a parent, have not dealt with the tension, insecurities and questions within yourself and also between you and your partner, you inadvertently will pass this tension on to the next generation to deal with in their life, as you've got them from your own generations before you.

You, as a child, did not consent to the choice of parents, where they are in their process of dealing with an unexplored self, a range of personalities in and between them.

You did not consent to the name that you were given either but have to drag this name with you.

You deal with all these unexpected irregularities to your authority as a human being and that dealing with gets an extra dimension in pressure when parents force their authority upon you as soon as you become comfortable within yourself as a person, an identity with experiences at the age of 3 and beyond.

The encouragement phase turns quite quickly into the correcting phase where you are told what not to do but not what you can do.

If parents have not gone through the mental stage of being able to play the role model without their inner tension and thought affecting the role, unprocessed tension can really burst into a mentally manipulative role and authority abusive force to a child without even being discussed or corrected by anyone else. Physical force, yes, psychological force is not dealt with so you have to later on in life.

This is your gift from being born into a world that not really sees you, you are not there, not regarded as full when people project: a growing individual that can really do with the help of individuals that have gone through their own mental process of understanding thought and the effects thought has on our behaviour, if they have gone there themselves.

Unfortunately, we all started with the unsolicited impact on being born into a relationship between two people with, considered or not, you as the next in that balanced, slightly balanced or unbalanced team.

With a crowd, there is an audience, with group dynamics and their forces, the change of personality kicks in when three is a crowd and you are the added part, planned or not.

Not pointing fingers here but explaining where your tension in yourself might come from.

It only stops when you stop it.

Enjoy this one.

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Produktdetails

• Verlag: Arjen Broens
• Erscheinungstermin: 12. Februar 2023
• Englisch
• ISBN-13: 9798215584583
• Artikelnr.: 69901087

Autorenporträt

Born in The Netherlands, moved to The Highlands in Scotland on the evening of 11-11-2008, didn't look back. From Edinburgh to Inverness, living in the middle of no where, deer and nature all around.

Started to look within to find what was under the false personality which, as a child, I felt, was there to cope with the world of grown ups around me from a very young age.

When the 1st 3 years of my life were full on encouragement to laugh, walk, talk, pursue to experience when it all changed into correction, telling me what not to do without telling what I could do from 5 years onwards.

I started to see that we all are caught in this merry-go-round, this appearance we hold up and started to write books where, in the past I had my diaries to get me through.

Aikido came into my life after a few lessons Jiu-Jitsu to gain confidence where I firmly decided not to want any killing reflexes in this body I left Jiu-Jitsu for Aikido and Iaido which changed my life entirely in a very good way.

Books were coming to me at the right time: NLP got me into the right mind set and bumped into it in a second hand book store during a holiday in Ireland for just under a Euro.

I chose to invest 30 min each day from then on to change me into who I am: confident, unattached, competent and self assured with life, nature and animals. Pure self and learned from there to listen to my heart with my mind as a worthy advisor to what's going on out there. Thoughts are just options.

Started to publish my books in 2013 after both my parents passed away on a very respectable age.

Sharing my thoughts and later, my experiences without thought infecting my being, understanding thought and how it is hijacked out there from a very young age and to keep you away from your core inside: the real you you are.

Enjoy my experiences in this life, written down for whoever has support by them or fall into your lap as books fell to me without a search, life just happens.

Discovered that the real reality is the life support system out there: no books, no gods, no symbols, no religions, no past, no future, just nature as it is is enough, always perfectly on time although our egoic state of mind will disapprove...

What Is is now and moving fast into a new now, no time to think as thinking is way to slow to get the real and exact signals, impulses into our senses.

Loving what I do, doing what I...