Angela Browne-Miller

Will You Still Need Me? Feeling Wanted, Loved, and Meaningful as We Age

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Produktbeschreibung

This insightful and moving book looks at how people of various ages view the process of aging and the social and emotional perspectives it evokes. Will You Still Need Me?: Feeling Wanted, Loved, and Meaningful as We Age is a touching and incisive book organized around interviews with individuals of various ages who have responded to questions about aging. The interviewees offer their unguarded thoughts about aging with a significant other-or alone. They reveal their self perceptions, their feelings about the future, their self-image as it relates to aging, and their expectations and impressions of aging itself. They also share their concerns that with aging comes not only possible loneliness, but also meaninglessness and even uselessness. Psychotherapist Angela Browne-Miller weaves the findings into a philosophical, research-based overview of cross-generational concerns and feelings about aging. Her book opens a window into the hearts and minds of our parents, our peers, and our children as they look at the aging process and at how individuals, society, and families treat aging. Through the sensitive, up-close-and-personal, bird's-eye view of the people interviewed for this book, aging unfolds into a deeply moving experience, one we all share.

Produktdetails

• Verlag: Bloomsbury 3PL
• Seitenzahl: 272
• Erscheinungstermin: 9. April 2010
• Englisch
• Abmessung: 240mm x 161mm x 19mm
• Gewicht: 577g
• ISBN-13: 9780313353901
• ISBN-10: 0313353905
• Artikelnr.: 29159023

Autorenporträt

Angela Brownemiller Ph.D.

Inhaltsangabe

Foreword by Evacheska deAngelis Preface Acknowledgments Note: The Stories Herein Are Our Stories Stories List Introduction Story #1: Dan W.
Age 59 I TOUCHING THE TENDER ISSUE OF AGING Story #2: Nona M.
Age 27 Story #3: Millicent D.
Age 30 Story #4: Andrea M.
Age 34 Story #5: Burton G.
Age 29 Story #6: Steven L.
Age 32 Story #7: Sharon J.
Age 39 Commentary 1. Growing Up and Up and Up 2. When Is Getting Older Aging? 3. The Desire Not to See Aging 4. What Aging Is (Or Is It?) 5. Companionship and the Prospect of Aging II BEING ALONE BEFORE BEING OLDER Story #8: Esmirelda Y.
Age 38 Story #9: Patricia V.
Age 45 Story #10: Devin P.
Age 39 Story #11: Greg T.
Age 44 Story #12: Barbara H.
Age 38 Story #13: Emily W.
Age 47 Story #14: Jeff B.
Age 45 Commentary 6. Midlife Looks at Aging 7. Divorce and Being Alone 8. Welcome to the Delicious Sandwich Generation Years 9. Worklife
Career Loss
and Not Feeling Needed 10. Empty Nests III SOCIAL PATTERNS
RELATIONSHIPS
AND AGING Story #15: Peter S.
Age 49 Story #16: Katy B.
Age 45 Story #17: George L.
Age 51 Story #18: Mark R.
Age 56 Story #19: Sally S.
Age 52 Story #20: Sandra M.
Age 55 Story #21: Geraldo H.
Age 54 Commentary 11. The Aging Self within Surrounding Networks 12. Families
Patterns
Networks
and Aging 13. Intimate Partner Relationship Patterning and Aging 14. Patterns of Behavior that Continue 15. Hollowing to Patterns IV AGING ON AGING Story #22: Marcia G.
Age 64 Story #23: Linda B.
Age 62 Story #24: Tom M.
Age 56 Story #25: Anton Y.
Age 58 Story #26: Ben D.
Age 66 Story #27: Jane Z.
Age 60 Story #28: Cristie S.
Age 60 Commentary 16. Mind-Brain Living through Aging 17. Social Isolation in Aging 18. Loneliness and Aging 19. Living Environments
Health
and Well-Being in Aging 20. Older Persons' Thoughts on Social Contact V THE MIND
LEARNING
AND MENTAL FUNCTIONING IN AGING Story #29: Arle H.
Age 65 Story #30: Arisha T.
Age 65 Story #31: Sten O.
Age 68 Story #32: Carla B.
Age 67 Story #33: Giselda A.
Age 73 Story #34: Rene M.
Age 78 Story #35: Walt M.
Age 68 Commentary 21. The Brain Does Age 22. Inner Thinkings and Age 23. Problem-Solving Strategies and Aging 24. Rethinking through Things and Mental Aging 25. Learning to Learn Again
in Later Years VI WILL YOU STILL NEED YOU? Story #36: Stanton Q.
Age 89 Story #37: Ida J.
Age 84 Story #38: Louis E.
Age 87 Story #39: Derrick G.
Age 80 Story #40: Lisa Lynn C.
Age 77 Commentary 26. Youth for Sale: The Distraction of Anti-Aging Consumption 27. Thinking Positive: Prescription for Aging Well? 28. Longevity
Spirit
and Quality of Life 29. Addiction to Reality 30. You Can Make It Through VII EXPERIENCING AGING IN NEW WAYS 31. Toward a New Paradigm for Aging 32. A New Adventure in the Life Cycle 33. Recommendations for an Emerging Social Force: Older People and Those Who Will One Day Be Older People APPENDICES A Interview Questionnaire B Problem-Solving Steps Explained C Trauma
Aging
and Closure D Long-Term Intimate Partner Violence and Trauma Moving into Aging E Emotional Abuse and Sadomasochism in Aging F Elder Living Environment Checklist Suggestions with Sample Elder Living Environment Checklist G Resources H Religious and Spiritual Perspectives on Aging and Resources Bibliography Index