"No offense intended to any of my other esteemed colleagues (or to myself for that matter), but were I to be alone on a desert island with only one book, this is the book that I would want to have-and I would read and reread it many times over, each time gleaning something new and inspirational."- Martha Stark, MD, faculty, Harvard Medical School; co-director, Center for Psychoanalytic Studies; author; award-winning Modes of Therapeutic Action
"Danielian and Gianotti's first book, Listening with Purpose, was an outstanding exploration of working with shame and narcissistic vulnerability. This new workbook represents a brilliantly innovative way to elaborate the clinical implications of that
earlier work. The linking of the discussions and case examples in the book to videos accessible to every reader of the book, to worksheets and other active teaching tools makes this a book uniquely effective in conveying how the authors work and enables readers really to integrate their insights into their work."-
Paul Wachtel, CUNY distinguished professor, City College of New York and CUNY Graduate Center; author,
Cyclical Psychodynamics and the Contextual Self: The Inner World, the Intimate World, and the World of Culture and Society"In this invaluable and penetrating workbook, Drs. Patricia Gianotti and Jack Danielian illustrate a clinical methodology for listening and tracking the moment-to-moment unfolding of the therapeutic process that is particularly attuned to the experience of shame, dissociation, and narcissistic vulnerability. In an effort to bolster resilience, authenticity, and healing, the painful aftereffects of relational trauma, the authors provide a nuanced model complete with training videos for facilitating careful listening and empathic attunement sensitive to varying attachment styles damaged by developmental compromises. Essential reading for all mental health professionals."-
Jon Mills, PsyD, PhD, ABPP, author,
Treating Attachment Pathology
