Wendy Sanford

These Walls Between Us (eBook, ePUB)

A Memoir of Friendship Across Race and Class

• Format: ePub

Produktbeschreibung

From an author of the best-selling women's health classic Our Bodies, Ourselves comes a bracingly forthright memoir about a life-long friendship across racial and class divides. A white woman's necessary learning, and a Black woman's complex evolution, make These Walls Between Us a tender, honest, cringeworthy and powerful read. (Debby Irving, author, Waking Up White.) In the mid-1950s, a fifteen-year-old African American teenager named Mary White (now Mary Norman) traveled north from Virginia to work for twelve-year-old Wendy Sanford's family as a live-in domestic for their summer vacation by a remote New England beach. Over the years, Wendy's family came to depend on Mary's skilled serviceand each summer, Mary endured the extreme loneliness of their elite white beachside retreat in order to support her family. As the Black help and the privileged white daughter, Mary and Wendy were not slated for friendship. But years latereach divorced, each a single parent, Mary now a rising officer in corrections and Wendy a feminist health activistthey began to walk the beach together after dark, talking about their children and their work, and a friendship began to grow. Based on decades' worth of visits, phone calls, letters, and texts between Mary and Wendy, These Walls Between Us chronicles the two women's friendship, with a focus on what Wendy characterizes as her oft-stumbling efforts, as a white woman, to see Mary more fully and to become a more dependable friend. The book examines obstacles created by Wendy's upbringing in a narrow, white, upper-class world; reveals realities of domestic service rarely acknowledged by white employers; and draws on classic works by the African American writers whose work informed and challenged Wendy along the way. Though Wendy is the work's primary author, Mary read and commented on every draftand together, the two friends hope their story will incite and support white readers to become more informed and accountable friends across the racial divides created by white supremacy and to become active in the ongoing movement for racial justice.

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Produktdetails

• Verlag: She Writes Press
• Erscheinungstermin: 5. Oktober 2021
• Englisch
• ISBN-13: 9781647421687
• Artikelnr.: 61131113

Autorenporträt

Wendy Sanford grew up in an upper-middle-class white suburban family in Princeton, New Jersey, and attended private schools throughout her life. During the socially turbulent time of the 1970s, she became a feminist, a lesbian, and a Quaker. A founding member of the Boston Women's Health Book Collective, Wendy coauthored and edited many versions of the women's health and sexuality classic Our Bodies, Ourselves from 1973 to 2011. In seminary at Harvard Divinity School in the '80s, she began to read works of women of color as "devotional reading," to remedy her previous exclusive exposure to white and mostly male authors. She served for nearly a decade in campus ministry in the Boston area. In her fifties, she began reckon with her own white skin and the benefits that came to her through being white. In 2003, she earned an MFA in Writing from Vermont College. She lives in Cambridge, MA, with Polly Attwood, her spouse of forty-one years. She is grateful to Mary Norman for partnering with her to create this book.